Denial and Ignoring a Growing Civil War in America

Wake Up!

If you are an American in America, the only excuse I'll accept for you not knowing what's going on is if you are dead. There is a race war brewing between the African and white Americans. As human beings we know that history repeats itself with change following. America is on the brink of a new president and what seems to be a change in what it means to be an American. I only speak for the Americans who don't feel the need to put ethnic origin in from of the term American. Those who feel we are one as a nation and not by relation. We as American people are confused as to why and down right tired of the ignored fact that America has always stuck its nose in other countries business. America is always preaching how peace and prosperity is found in our country and for that reason feel the need to go into other countries and tell them how they should operate. Now if the destruction caused in those countries would cause the destruction of  the American people, then we can all understand but we have found that is not true. We have our own country, government, religion, and views that don't effect no one in the world until we impose on them. Why is it that America can't make sure that it's own people are conducting themselves in this patriotic manner? Why is it that we can run to and aid other countries in war, starvation and catastrophic events in a urgent timely manner but we fall short in saving our own people right here in America? Even just as important as those questions. If the American people notice this is going on, then why is the government ignoring  and keeping it up? America needs to work on changing itself before controlling the change of other countries. I believe this starts with placing different types of people in all high profile government offices and putting more control over what, when and where the media is able to report news.

This war between Americans is being fueled by media and politics. Normally around election time there is mudslinging between the candidates. This time around one particular candidate took to putting the people of America against each other and the media has helped him do it. The media and the republican candidate want us to believe this is the path to a new better America. I'm talking about Donald Trump and one media outlet in particular, Fox News. Fox News is unlike CNN's unbiased platform that gives world news . I could never tell what side the creator of CNN is on by what and how the news is reported. It's very clear to me and the rest of the non color-blind people in the world that Fox News and Donald Trump are feeding a beast. The first time we actually paid attention to what's in Donald's brain instead of his wallet it was clear as to who he was as a human being. A  person who takes more pleasure in money and control then quality of life. Mistake his overrated lavish hotels and other exaggerated products for how he will care for us and our country and we are in a world set for turmoil and civil war.  If he cared about the people and the country he wouldn't have made comments about Mexicans or any other race. He has not spoken in detail about how to fix the country but instead place the blame on other race of Americans. Listing them as downfalls and set backs of America and excluding white Americans from his judgment. He has embarrassed our country. Fox News has played a big part in delivering his as well as other hateful messages to influence the American vote and view on certain races of people and what they represent.
Fox News who is one of the biggest media platforms has a biased approach to broadcasting the news. If you're saying anything against African Americans in America and their movement they will give you multiple interviews and ample air time to do so. They have proven this to be fact with not only Trump but others F-list celebrities as well (Stacey Dash). Some of their latest biased content has been shown with the election by giving more air time on the republican party over the democratic party. Fox is one the biggest fuels to the racial fire in the country. Giving more air time to show how black attack police officers, police officers doing all of a sudden good deeds in their neighbor hood, but barely give the equal amount of time when the police attack African Americans. Have you seen the Fox News Instagram page? It's like a safe haven to those who hate and home of the RNC! They only follow 61 people and out of 61 only 1 is black and she works for them. Need I say more? Shame on you Fox News for not being able to give true reports in an unbiased way. You should be boycotted. The way you paint the world to America and America to the rest of the world has us all living in fear. We don't know the truth and you're not trusted to give it to us. As always people will find their own truth and prepare for the worse which we hope does not come. Stop brainwashing and scaring America. African American's don't want to hurt white Americans. We only care about overcoming oppression that was placed on our people by breaking road blocks placed within government and education systems that hold us back without causing harm. IT'S WORKING AND THAT'S WHY WE'RE BEING TARGETED AGAIN. 
Let me awaken you to  the 4 facts that are being ignored and denied. There's more white people in decision making government offices in this country then any other ethnic group. The KKK is no different than Isis. We as Americans know "All Lives Matter" but it's African Americans who lives are in danger. Most importantly we didn't ask to live here, we were brought by force. Remember? So look to your own people for why things are not great in America and stop attacking us! If you don't care because it's not "your people", then just wait. My heart goes out to all the fallen African Americans and police officers families who have been put against each other by the media and politics. Lets wake up People.

Blog Owner

Sugar Newton 

Old fashion Relationship Vs The Modern Hook Up

Bring The Love Back! Kill The Hookup

S.O.R: What is your problem with the way we show love and represent relationships today in the heterosexual world?

If I have to give my thoughts on the way we show love and represent relationships in the heterosexual world, I would say it's a reversal of the old saying "If it's not broke , then don't fix it". I'm not sure who decided that the way we interacted with each other was totally wrong, but what is going on now within the heterosexual world is not right. The roles have switched now and in my opinion I would say the change came when the term "Independent Women", the Internet and texting took off. I'm only speaking on the term and the way women started to change, not placing blame on any music, artist or anyone in particular who made several songs or other content promoting the idea. Around that time I was a kid just coming up on the dating years of my life. Learning the Internet and having the newest cell phone was life . I remember with the Internet and texting I didn't have to care about or get to know a person, so much as to figure out how to get what I want form them. Also that I did have to tell the truth at all about myself. which was cool to me back then. As I grew I learned that I was cheating myself and the other person out of a true experience. I had to decide then which dating path I would take for the course of my love life . Would I be an independent woman or a submissive woman? Here's my take on what the world presented them to be along with the outlook of others that I asked this question to.

1. Independent Woman: This woman does not need a man for anything. She feel anything a man can do she can do just as good. Also can be labeled as a career woman or money hungry. Who may want a successful career and not motherhood right away or at all. Very strong mind and determined to get what she wants. Poor attitude,   Which to me was just to be in control of her own stability. Often intimidating men steering them away from being with a woman of such power. 
2. Old Fashioned Woman: Believes that a woman and man each has their place and roles in a relationship and the world. That working together with compromise makes life easier. This woman has been viewed to suffer more hurt from a man because she allows herself to depend on him for certain needs. She finds her joy in life through caring for her children and her home and also her man which has provided all that she enjoys. Often seen as a handicap enabling her to be an individual.

Now the only difference between the two really is that one has a little more or less dependency and respect for the males position in the relationship. When you promote change we often only think about the change that we are trying to make and not so much what will also follow and change as well. A woman's sexuality and motherhood was hit hard with this role change. For some reason it was put in the world that a women of independent nature did want children and had no time for romance. Well if you have no time for romance then you must be promiscuous or better known as a "Man Eater". Which is totally not true. It was also assumed that all woman were now independent and had no need for man. Which I believed in my mind made men bitter and treat woman different.

I think that is where the role of man took a turn for the worse and brought on a lot of gender confusion. I'm not speaking on the transgender community but solely on the role of the heterosexual male in a heterosexual relationship. During time I was full in the dating circle and noticed the role reversal and was subject to sexual scrutiny. I watch a decline in the type of man I grew up with and a rise in the kind of man who seemed confused about his place in a independent woman world. Which somehow turned into the world period.

1. New Age Man: This guy does not take a woman out on a date without discussing who is going to pays first. He does not worry about her needs as far as hunger, illness, and sometimes overall well being. He is turned off by a woman with children and or a well paying job or career. He just has no real ambition to go further in life then his comfort zone. Will potentially prefer a woman from another race because he feel the women of his kind are too self-sufficient or a head ache. Does not mind being a "house dad". Prefer social events over family outing. Fears any kind of commitment. Higher unemployment rates... etc..
2. Old fashioned Man: This man will ask you your name before calling you ma, shorty, baby girl,  pretty lady etc. or anything else that takes a name from a woman and label her differently. He takes pride in his education and set goals for his future. He loves all women in his life. He wants a family to carry on his name. He will take you out on a date and you never have to pay. He wonders about your well being. Did you eat, How was your day? etc. He is affectionate and understanding. He is a protector and a provider. He believes in God even if not attending church regularly. He wants to own things of value and has been instilled with the old American Dream... etc.

Let me state that the description of each characteristic was given by random men and women from the ages of 18 to 65. The question that was asked was simple. What they found to be the biggest complaint with the opposite sex is what's listed here. It is not in any way meant to bash, hurt feelings, or rub anyone the wrong way. It is simply bringing the attention to the opinions about changes that were made for the worse. With hopes to point us in the right direction on where we need to go or get back to as lovers in this world. There is too much hate going on. Our focus is being put elsewhere instead of on the things we need to survive and live productively as heterosexuals. We need to turn our focus back to the things that mattered to our ancestors. What happened to things like promoting education, real equality, the American Dream, date night, family gatherings, reading a book , out door activities etc.. There area lot of things that have changed about the heterosexual world besides the way we show love and represent relationship. If we can't come together in any type of relationship be it friendship, a loving relationship, or just a companionship, then how can we work on and expect change as a whole?
I propose we stop hooking up over electronic devices and dating sites. They give you a visual image and description of a person and their life which can be made up to be and look like anything. Set time aside to converse with each other. If you find someone attractive ask their name and about their goals, likes, dislikes etc. We need start using time to really get to know each other and rebuild our future with more love and appreciation for our mate. This goes both for male and female. There is no longer a need for independence. Woman know now that our accomplishments can only be limited by us and not a man. That man does actually have a place of need in our life. Men you need to let go of the past version of the independent woman and embrace the new and improved version. A woman who is successful and loving. Who is aware and appreciate the role of a man in her life. Wanting to see man grow and succeed just as much as she does, Building a team with a strong foundation future success. It starts with us! What do you think?

Blog Owner

Sugar Newton

A New Silent Killer Alert! The U.S Draft! Part1

Death to the U.S Draft!

THE INFORMATION FOUND HERE MAY BE SHOCKING TO THOSE TOTALLY CLUELESS!

Fact 1: The U.S Draft does not exist anymore.

Fact 2: It is voluntary to sign up for the war, but mandatory to sign up for the draft.

Fact 3: If you are male you must register for the draft by the time you are 26 years of age.
Are you confused yet? Are you asking yourself the famous question that has yet to be answered?

Why do you have to sign up for the draft if it does not exist anymore? I have searched and I am still in search for a better answer then what I have came up with. The reason you have to sign up for the draft even though there is no current draft in place is for "what if" purposes. That's right! You read correctly. Your signing up for the draft just in case the government needs to, or better put want to bring the draft back in effect. Therefor instead of saying there is no draft, the term "technically" should be thrown in there some where. It should say technically the draft does not exist.
Wait! before you go all activist on me and fall into those old sayings of our frustrated ancestors. You know the ones like "fuck the draft! I'm not fighting the white man's war!", and the most popular one I hear to date," we have no business over there so I don't want to be involved". Here's where you have to make a bold decision. I must inform you that time is not on your side and it looks like in this case the government does not respect your opinion to choose. There are consequences you will have to face if you decide to totally ignore the government and the updated warning I'm giving you here.
Fact 1: It's the law.

Fact 2: Its a felony punishable by law.

Fact 3: You can be fined up to the amount of 250,000, go to prison for a term of 5 years or both.

I personally agree with those who feel this is an unfair deal. I mean, if you don't want to risk losing your life for the "Government", then the " Government" should not take your freedom away and or charge you a fine. This did not sit well with the men in the world who were of age when this law was put in action. They decided to go to jail and the men who had families to care for took to the streets and hiding. They had acquired a catch me if you can attitude. Which they passed down to their sons who took hiding and being in the streets to a whole new level. With gangs on the rise along with absent parents, the loss of information and communication about the draft went on the rise as well. This had a sounding effect. The low numbers caught the attention of the government. What they noticed was a miscount. There was a hike in the number of people signing up for college and other trade and technical schools that require government funding, but it did not match the number of people signing up for the draft. This set the government in action to put a stop to this kind of activity. To show that they are in control and mean business. What they came up with is insane and has to be a violation of some kind of right as a American citizen.

New Fact: If you fail to comply with the Selective Service System between the time frame 30 days after you turn 18 and your 26th birthday, you will not be able to use benefits that you thought could never be taken from you. This include and is not limited to

• Federal student loan and grant programs ( Federal Pell Grants, Federal Supplemental Educational Opportunity Grants (FSEOG), Direct Stafford Loans/Plus Loans, National Direct Student Loans, and College Work Study ) is included.
• Federal job training under the Workforce Investment Act( these people provide programs that can train young men seeking vocational employment or enhancing their career, but it's only for those who signed up for the draft. If you are born after December 31, 1959, you are required to show proof of registration.)
• Any federal employment such as Executive Branch of the Federal Government and the U.S. Postal Service, or employment requiring a security clearance like a contractor for an example.
• Also U.S citizenship for immigrant men.(you may be able to get around this if the man first arrived in the U.S. before his 26th birthday).
• Some state employment and state-funded student financial aid in many states(some state have added additional penalties if you failed to register as well)

Is you heart pounding yet? Are you sitting there wondering if you signed up for the draft or not? Well join the crowd! There are hundreds of men who are now at and after the age of 26 running into this problem everyday. Majority of the men affected by this are from the African and Spanish American culture. Was this a plan by the government to ensure we have soldiers to fight a war? Was it a way to get back and at the same time hinder those who took a route of being unseen? Both are possible because some would call this action not "American like" by not signing up for the draft. The government for years have been trying to find a way to seem fair and uncalculated when making laws, but citizens who are more affected by these laws KNOW BETTER! It does not take a rocket scientist to know that more white families have military background then any ethnic group. Sometimes joining the military is even a tradition in some families, though not all white. I say this to exclude a gap of communication in most white household as far as school and the military versus the African and Spanish household who we all know HAS A DIFFERENT HISTORY OR NOT OUR NATURAL HISTORY IN AMERICA. I care more about giving you guys out here a fighting chance. You should have the right chose. Especially when we're in a fight against being able to chose a different gender then God gave us and who can use what restroom. We should have the right to choose to fight or not.
If you want to know if you signed up https://www.sss.gov/Home/Verification/Records
If you are between the ages of 18 and 26 and need a application to sign up here's is a link to the online application https://www.sss.gov/Registration/Register-Now/Registration-Form. GET STARTED! FIND OUT NOW! and MOST IMPORTANT SPREAD THE WORD!
Part2) Will address the feedback I get from part1 and give more information on how to get around some of these issues. Also give information on a bill in works since April 2016! to make women sign up for the draft .and how they are adding restricting driver's licenses as well in most states. ALTHOUGH SOME BENEFITS ARE CLOSED PERMANENTLY THERE ARE STILL WAYS TO GET AROUND THESE LAWS IF YOU DID NOT SIGNED UP.

Sugar Newton
Blog Owner

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